Plants have taught me that there is beauty in the waiting. There is beauty in the stillness. And that waiting, that stillness is all just leading up to something new and beautiful. Eventually all that work that was done in quiet moments will pay off.
I genuinely cannot ever recall a time or period in my life where I would have considered myself a patient human. Even as a little kid, I remember my mom telling me that “patience is a virtue.” Admittedly, I have always been about instant gratification. In the past this tendency has played a key role in my failures as a plant parent. I would tend to pick up a succulent at the grocery store determined this time to keep it alive. But, inevitably, I would end up forgetting about the plant entirely. Or, if not entirely, then for long enough periods that there was no bringing it back.
Now, I will admit that I do tend to be on the forgetful side. But really the problem was lack of patience. I wasn’t seeing my desired outcome (growth, blooms, whatever) within the first week and I would grow bored. But when COVID hit and I had nothing but time to sit and watch a plant grow I figured it was a good time to start again. I started with two little succulents and decided to use all my new spare time to actually educate myself about how to keep them alive. They’re actually still sitting on my windowsill! But once I was confident that I could keep them alive, I started truly enjoying them. I started getting joy out of them simply being there. And, when they did eventually start putting out new leaves, it was the best feeling ever.
Notice that when I actually put the time and effort into understanding what they needed – instead of just winging it based on preconceived notions – that’s when they started thriving. And now, dozens of plants later, that’s still true. When I give them what they need they will eventually grow something new and beautiful. It might take a while, but that wait is just giving the plant the time it needs to grow. That time isn’t wasted. Just like your plant, you deserve that time too. As humans, we all have different requirements in order to thrive. And we all have different rates of growth. Take the time to learn and understand what your specific needs are. What do you need to thrive? And, just like with your plants, be patient with yourself. If you’re doing the work your new growth is inevitable.








